Now, what a powerful quote to start the week – the title I mean. Cause right now I`m looking like this 
Saying is easy, doing on the other hand…let`s see some tricks.
Well, the first one can be exactly what I`m doing now – enjoying some personal moments. Yes, with ice cream. My kind of ice cream. See? And while I was doing that I started thinking about how can I fight my fears. Because yeah, even crazy little ladies have fears. From the fear of not finding my favorite ice cream at the nearest supermarket while planning a movie night, to the fear of people seeing me with my nails undone. To fears like `oh shit, I must not loose my temper when my team hits a dark spot in our organizing schedule.
I`ve read somethings Henri said during an interview and here`s what remained in my head
- Gratitude. Whenever you feel fear, switch it over to what you are grateful for instead. If you’re afraid of public speaking, be grateful for the opportunity to communicate with so many people, and that they are there to genuinely listen to what you have to say.
- Take Action. I’m an action taker, and I know that fears are just fears. They are created by your imagination to make reality seem scarier than it is. When you take action and face your fears, they become weaker, because you realize that reality isn’t nearly as bad as your imagination.
- Positivity. Whenever fear strikes, flip it over. Instead of thinking of something bad that can happen, think of something positive. What’s a positive outcome to your fear? If you’re thinking about public speaking, imagine yourself being wildly successful instead of failing horribly.
PNK Casual Exclusive pink dress – IE white blouse – Smiling Shoes heels – Gabriela Dumitran hat
Photos by Alexaandru Rosieanu
- Perspective. Learning to deal with fear is all about putting your negative thoughts in perspective. We tend to focus too much on the negative, so by looking at all the options, you often realize that you’re making a big deal of nothing. There are so many things that can happen that it’s impossible for you to predict. We aren’t psychics.
- Model. I’m not talking about modeling clothes here. I’m talking about finding someone who had the fear you have, but managed to get rid of it. Get in touch with them, ask them how they did it, and learn to use their strategies in your own life.
- Ask. Your feelings are there to tell you something, ask what the purpose of them is. Ask your heart, God, the universe, or whatever you feel comfortable with. What are your fears trying to tell you?
- Breathe. Your breath can set you free. It can anchor you in the now and help you vanquish and overcome your most pervasive fears. I saved it for last, because it’s one of the simplest and most powerful ways of overcoming fear.
But what I think is utterly important is to know and trust yourself. To spend time with yourself, to enjoy moments of relaxation. To talk to yourself. For me, my greatest moments with myself are when I have fun with myself. When I enjoy a delicious dessert, think about my day, how things are evolving right now, what I should do next and what should I improve at myself. And I think this is my spring when it comes to letting go of my fears.
These special moments turn me into a limitless little lady. And maybe a crazy one. After all, the lack of fear brings with it the freedom of being exactly who you are.
Sure, in this post I`m bragging with my new summer obsessions from Haagen-Dazs – which you know I my absolute love – The Mango & Raspberry flavor and The Summer Berries & Cream one.
My fav is the Mango & Raspberry. 
Great mantra, Monday. great mantra. For the most most hated day of the week worldwide, you proved to be quite cool.
You look amazing in that blouse. And the breathe aspect is really important
A fairy in dusty pink, I love it.
Haagen is the best ice-cream ever, and the summer berries one is yummy
mango Haagen Dasz, pure yummness
mi-a mers la suflet acest articol, mai ales asortat cu desertul meu preferat…all season :)) da, eu consum Haagen Dazs si iarna
Fearless women are the most powerful of them all 😉
superba si foarte pozitiva si increzatoare
Inca o lectie pe care trebuie s-o exersez mult inainte sa o invat. Si sunt chiar pe subiect, mi-e frica de mor sa vorbesc in public si in ultima vreme parca numai asta mi se intampla :))))
amazing white blouse
Draga mea,
Arati minunat si mi-a prins foarte bine sa citesc aceste ganduri si sfaturi.
te imbratisez
Anaaaaa, ce-mi faaaaaaci???? Sunt la dietaaaaa :)))))
Abia astept sa incerc noile arome, cred ca mango o sa fie preferata mea
da, chiar pare mai usor sa spui decat sa faci 🙂 dar stiu ca voi reusi sa-mi infrang fricile, si crede-ma ca nu sunt putine
You look amazing and that hat is soon you
wow, rochia PNK e absolut superba, dantela e atat de frumoasa
Haagen Dazs e desertul meu preferat of all times, uneori si cina mea perferata :))) o sa fie greu sa renunt la vanilie si tiramisu, dar poate ca fructele de padure ma vor convinge
de mult n-am mai vazut o bluza atat de frumoasa
positive thinkers are the best. and the happiest 🙂
Ai o ie minunata! Manecile bufante o fac sa fie inedita! Frumoase combinatii! <3
Avem si noi in magazinul newt niste bluze cu modele traditionale superbe, you may want to take a look at 🙂
Superba bluza!
foarte bun boost of confidence, multumesc 🙂
You are gorgeous, I absolutely love the white blouse
Superba, iar palaria e GE NI A LA
uneori as vrea sa existe o pastila pentru frica, mi-ar prinde tare bine :))))
imagine yourself being wildly successful instead of failing horribly. I did it every day, it works, trust me!
The best advice someone can give you 😉
I love reading your confidence advice, they are always so close to my heart
Bluza e clar o bluza de contesa. N-am niciun dubiu :))
Haagen Dasz summer berries is the IT desert of the summer.You become addicted, I know I did and I don’t even like ice-cream that much 🙂
so summerish aceasta rochie roz, o ador
Tu esti frumoasa si speciala, iar bluza superba te arata cu aripi de inger.